How do you deal with feelings for someone else?
Here, 12 women who’ve fancied people other than their partners explain how they dealt with those feelings.
- Don’t nurture them.
- There’s nothing wrong with flirting.
- Don’t fantasise.
- Distance yourself from it.
- Let it run its course.
- Don’t let it be a source of angst.
- Make a joke out of it.
- It could be a warning sign.
What to do if your girlfriend likes someone else?
If she likes someone else, that’s on her. It is her job to break up with you and move on, or to realize that her crush doesn’t mean that much. At the end of the day it’s her actions, not her thoughts, that matter. Paradoxically, this confidence in yourself, knowing that she’s your girl and that’s that, will make you much more attractive.
Is it normal for my girlfriend to talk to other guys?
But talking to other guys while in a relationship is normal. If a guy says, “I get jealous when my girlfriend talks to other guys!” or “How to trust my girlfriend around others?” it is normal. Feeling anxiety when your girlfriend goes out and interacts with other men is also normal.
Why does my girlfriend ignore me when she is with another guy?
The reason that she will blatantly pay more attention to him and ignore you is that she is subconsciously pretending in her mind that you two are not in a relationship. She may not do this on purpose, but her mind will more or less take over her actions without her noticing exactly what she is doing.
What should I do if I think my Girl is into other guys?
If you’re terrified of losing her, then you should talk to her. If you’re blindly enraged at the thought, then you need to take a step back. If you can’t find a way to trust her, either because of past issues or because you can’t shake the idea that she’s into other guys, just break up.